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Domestic Abuse is one thing that has been experienced in marriage by both couples many have endured it while some can't and thereby seeking for divorce in order to be free but is that the solution? In today's article we will be talking about INSULT and it's effects and how to control it.
Insult is one of the word that hurts the heart it pierces the heart like a sword whenever it is used on someone and it leads one either to quarreling or fighting that's is why you have to be careful with the words you use on someone. In marriage, couples should never insult one another in presence of their children because it passes negative impact on them. I got the biggest shock of my life one day when my neighbors son told his visitor to shut up not only that he also asked the woman if she is stupid, where did a boy of 3 years learn this from if not from his parents which is very bad because he has learned it at a young age and he is now using it on visitor if his parents did not insult each other in his presence he wouldn't have learned it, parents are to discipline their children not teaching them bad habits and also when parents discipline themselves in the right direction their children will learn from it.
Even when you have an issue with your husband or wife try to hold yourself do not react in the presence of your children because when you react in their presence they will pick the negative side of it and leave the positive side that is children for you. Couples insulting each other in the presence of their children have made their children to be rude and insultive to people around them even their parents are not excluded because it is what they learnt from them so you have to be very careful with the way you react to issues in the presence of your children because whatever you do your children will learn it and put into practice in order for you not to raise children who are disobedient and rude you must not insult your partner in their presence.
Insulting your husband or wife in the presence of your children makes him or her to lack respect from your children because they will say since your wife did not respect you so why should they because there are words that you use when insulting your husband or wife, you will be inferior to your children not only to them alone but also to people around you because your children will tell everything you do to each other to the people around or outside. I was so shocked one day when a man close to me told his wife that so is very useless in the presence of the children,from this aspect the children will starting think that their mother has no value because in the right thinking that is what the word USELESS mean but assuming that her husband did not use such word on her the children won't think so.
Many fathers no longer have respect in the family today because of the way they are insulted by their wives in the presence of their children, some women even go to the extent to tell their children that their father is worthless because he no longer provide for the family but she has forgotten so Soon that he once provided all the needs of the family and there's a saying that nothing last forever so telling your children that their father is worthless is very bad. On the other hand,many mothers have also lost their own respect in the family because of the way they were talked to by their husbands in the presence of their children, I nearly fought with one man one day when he called his wife a prostitute in the presence of his children, is there fair? No it is not, as a wife she deserves some respect from you as her husband not insults and disgrace in the presence of your children thereby making her inferior to your children which is very bad, calling your wife a prostitute is just telling your children that there mother is into prostitution no man should ever call his wife a prostitute because it damages her reputation.
Couples should never discipline each other in the presence of their children but rather in their quiet time or private room your children should never hear you insult your wife in their presence or wife insulting your husband in the presence your children because it damages the reputation of your been their parent but when they discipline each other privately they gain respect from their children no how old they are.
I hope you find this article helpful?
Insult is one of the word that hurts the heart it pierces the heart like a sword whenever it is used on someone and it leads one either to quarreling or fighting that's is why you have to be careful with the words you use on someone. In marriage, couples should never insult one another in presence of their children because it passes negative impact on them. I got the biggest shock of my life one day when my neighbors son told his visitor to shut up not only that he also asked the woman if she is stupid, where did a boy of 3 years learn this from if not from his parents which is very bad because he has learned it at a young age and he is now using it on visitor if his parents did not insult each other in his presence he wouldn't have learned it, parents are to discipline their children not teaching them bad habits and also when parents discipline themselves in the right direction their children will learn from it.
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Even when you have an issue with your husband or wife try to hold yourself do not react in the presence of your children because when you react in their presence they will pick the negative side of it and leave the positive side that is children for you. Couples insulting each other in the presence of their children have made their children to be rude and insultive to people around them even their parents are not excluded because it is what they learnt from them so you have to be very careful with the way you react to issues in the presence of your children because whatever you do your children will learn it and put into practice in order for you not to raise children who are disobedient and rude you must not insult your partner in their presence.
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Insulting your husband or wife in the presence of your children makes him or her to lack respect from your children because they will say since your wife did not respect you so why should they because there are words that you use when insulting your husband or wife, you will be inferior to your children not only to them alone but also to people around you because your children will tell everything you do to each other to the people around or outside. I was so shocked one day when a man close to me told his wife that so is very useless in the presence of the children,from this aspect the children will starting think that their mother has no value because in the right thinking that is what the word USELESS mean but assuming that her husband did not use such word on her the children won't think so.
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Many fathers no longer have respect in the family today because of the way they are insulted by their wives in the presence of their children, some women even go to the extent to tell their children that their father is worthless because he no longer provide for the family but she has forgotten so Soon that he once provided all the needs of the family and there's a saying that nothing last forever so telling your children that their father is worthless is very bad. On the other hand,many mothers have also lost their own respect in the family because of the way they were talked to by their husbands in the presence of their children, I nearly fought with one man one day when he called his wife a prostitute in the presence of his children, is there fair? No it is not, as a wife she deserves some respect from you as her husband not insults and disgrace in the presence of your children thereby making her inferior to your children which is very bad, calling your wife a prostitute is just telling your children that there mother is into prostitution no man should ever call his wife a prostitute because it damages her reputation.
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Couples should never discipline each other in the presence of their children but rather in their quiet time or private room your children should never hear you insult your wife in their presence or wife insulting your husband in the presence your children because it damages the reputation of your been their parent but when they discipline each other privately they gain respect from their children no how old they are.
I hope you find this article helpful?
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