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Marriage is a good thing created by God, for God said in his word in Genesis 2:24 "A man will leave his father and mother and is United with his wife and they become one". This is the origin of marriage and it was first enjoyed by Adam and Eve until they sinned against God. God also Instructed in his word that husband should be submissive to his wife and wife should be submissive to her husband and this instruction was kept by Abraham and his wife Sarah and other people in the Bible but currently in our world today we have thrown this instruction to the waste bin for we feel that it is not important in our life or marriage but I tell you that we are fooling ourselves by thinking so. In this article i want to educate both male and female how to be submissive and what it does in our relationship, but firstly what does it mean to be submissive?
To be submissive means to be willing or obedient to orders or wishes of others. For one to be submissive does not mean that you have to be a slave or speechless you also have the chance to make your own opinions in a good manner. This word submissive is especially used today when it is time for sex but it is not what it stands for, submissive is been obedient to each other. Below are the importance of been submissive in relationship or marriage.
How to be submissive for Men:
Men will always clam to be the head of the house which is true but that does not mean you don't have to be submissive,as a man you to be submissive to your wife and everyone around you remember submissive means to be obedient to each other. You are in control of your household but you also have to respect your wife's opinions for she is part of you, both of you makes decisions together which helps to build the family to a good standard. For there's a saying that two heads are better than one which is true when you are obedient to your wife opinions you will see how things moves in your marriage but be careful when picking her opinions and don't feel that she is riding you or trying to over thrown you as the head of the house because some many men do think so. I have seen some many men beat up their wives simply because she made a decision in the house.
This is very bad idea beating your wife just because she made a decision is just like beating yourself because there is a saying that "in every nonsense there is always a sense" no matter what she said there must be a point. For a man to be submissive you have to help your wife in the following ways:
1. Taking the children to school:
Some men are doing this and it is fantastic while some are not which is very bad,it is not only the duty of your wife to take your children to school but it is also your own duty as a father to help out sometimes it is also a means that you care about your children and education.
2. Bathing the children:
Some men see this as been foolish but it is not helping your wife to bath your children does not mean she is riding you or you are a fool it is a good way of growing the family in love and respect.
3. Helping in the kitchen:
Most men will give an excuse of not been a good cook but there's a chance for you to learn through your wife, you can assist her in the kitchen that does not make you a fool it is part of the love you have for each other especially when she is pregnant you have to lease her of some tasks.
4. Washing of clothes:
This one is a very difficult task for men they feel that when they are doing this they are now maid to their wives but it is a big lie, helping your wife to do the washing is not a sin but also a shared duty especially when she is pregnant and no one is around to help out always do her a good favor by doing the washing for she will forever remember it and love you more.
This is the little tips I can give for now about how men can be submissive to their wives, below is how women can be submissive to their husbands:
1. Always keep silent:
Keeping silent does not mean you have to be dump in your marriage but whenever an argument arises because men will always clam to be right the best thing you can do is to be silent do not exchange any word with them because the more you talk the more they also raise their own voice which might lead to them beating you, so for you to avoid been beating whenever an argument arises just keep silent and never say a word to them because when you do so they feel disrespected by you.
2. Speaking with good manner:
Some women don't know how to talk to their husbands you were not the one who married them rather they married you therefore never talk to your husband with a harsh voice always lower your voice when speaking to them because when you speak to them with a harsh voice they feel that you are commanding them to do what they don't like so be careful.
3. Learn to manage:
As a wife you must learn to manage the family resources you don't have to compare your husband's purse with another man's own, whatever he gives you learn how to use it for the betterment of the family.
4. Cooking on time:
Most men don't joke with their stomach so as a wife try as much as possible to prepare either breakfast, lunch or dinner on time so that there won't be issues about cooking in the house which might prompt your husband to start eating outside the house.
5. Coming home on time:
As a wife you don't have to stay out so late because when you return home everyday late your husband will begin to have abnormal thinking about you for him not to thinking so about you avoid coming home very late either from work or occasions.
To summarize all both husband and wife known is greater than each other but equal so as a husband you don't have to be rude to your wife or neglect her opinions thereby making her feel like a fool or as a wife trying to over thrown your husband as head of the family rather be obedient to him and respect his decisions, the Bible also says that "Family that prays together stay together" learn how to initiate your family into been prayerful, make all your decisions together and also involving God into it to have control.
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To be submissive means to be willing or obedient to orders or wishes of others. For one to be submissive does not mean that you have to be a slave or speechless you also have the chance to make your own opinions in a good manner. This word submissive is especially used today when it is time for sex but it is not what it stands for, submissive is been obedient to each other. Below are the importance of been submissive in relationship or marriage.
How to be submissive for Men:
Men will always clam to be the head of the house which is true but that does not mean you don't have to be submissive,as a man you to be submissive to your wife and everyone around you remember submissive means to be obedient to each other. You are in control of your household but you also have to respect your wife's opinions for she is part of you, both of you makes decisions together which helps to build the family to a good standard. For there's a saying that two heads are better than one which is true when you are obedient to your wife opinions you will see how things moves in your marriage but be careful when picking her opinions and don't feel that she is riding you or trying to over thrown you as the head of the house because some many men do think so. I have seen some many men beat up their wives simply because she made a decision in the house.
This is very bad idea beating your wife just because she made a decision is just like beating yourself because there is a saying that "in every nonsense there is always a sense" no matter what she said there must be a point. For a man to be submissive you have to help your wife in the following ways:
1. Taking the children to school:
Some men are doing this and it is fantastic while some are not which is very bad,it is not only the duty of your wife to take your children to school but it is also your own duty as a father to help out sometimes it is also a means that you care about your children and education.
2. Bathing the children:
Some men see this as been foolish but it is not helping your wife to bath your children does not mean she is riding you or you are a fool it is a good way of growing the family in love and respect.
3. Helping in the kitchen:
Most men will give an excuse of not been a good cook but there's a chance for you to learn through your wife, you can assist her in the kitchen that does not make you a fool it is part of the love you have for each other especially when she is pregnant you have to lease her of some tasks.
4. Washing of clothes:
This one is a very difficult task for men they feel that when they are doing this they are now maid to their wives but it is a big lie, helping your wife to do the washing is not a sin but also a shared duty especially when she is pregnant and no one is around to help out always do her a good favor by doing the washing for she will forever remember it and love you more.
This is the little tips I can give for now about how men can be submissive to their wives, below is how women can be submissive to their husbands:
1. Always keep silent:
Keeping silent does not mean you have to be dump in your marriage but whenever an argument arises because men will always clam to be right the best thing you can do is to be silent do not exchange any word with them because the more you talk the more they also raise their own voice which might lead to them beating you, so for you to avoid been beating whenever an argument arises just keep silent and never say a word to them because when you do so they feel disrespected by you.
2. Speaking with good manner:
Some women don't know how to talk to their husbands you were not the one who married them rather they married you therefore never talk to your husband with a harsh voice always lower your voice when speaking to them because when you speak to them with a harsh voice they feel that you are commanding them to do what they don't like so be careful.
3. Learn to manage:
As a wife you must learn to manage the family resources you don't have to compare your husband's purse with another man's own, whatever he gives you learn how to use it for the betterment of the family.
4. Cooking on time:
Most men don't joke with their stomach so as a wife try as much as possible to prepare either breakfast, lunch or dinner on time so that there won't be issues about cooking in the house which might prompt your husband to start eating outside the house.
5. Coming home on time:
As a wife you don't have to stay out so late because when you return home everyday late your husband will begin to have abnormal thinking about you for him not to thinking so about you avoid coming home very late either from work or occasions.
To summarize all both husband and wife known is greater than each other but equal so as a husband you don't have to be rude to your wife or neglect her opinions thereby making her feel like a fool or as a wife trying to over thrown your husband as head of the family rather be obedient to him and respect his decisions, the Bible also says that "Family that prays together stay together" learn how to initiate your family into been prayerful, make all your decisions together and also involving God into it to have control.
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