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Marriage is a good thing but it should not be rushed into without fully understanding what it is all about, Before getting married there are some things one need to do in order to get a good partner and one of the things required is COURTSHIP.
Courtship is a process whereby people who are about to get married flock together in other to understand themselves better, In this article you will learn the Importance of Courtship and the reasons you need to do it before getting married, So many marriages have been divided today because most of them did not engage in Courtship before getting married. In this article you will learn the role Courtship play before marriage.
READ ALSO------REASONS TO GET MARRIED, QUALITY REASONS ONE NEED TO GET MARRIED
•To know each other character
Character plays a major role in marriage without you knowing the character of your partner before getting married it will be difficult for you to cope with him or her when you get married this is one of the reasons most couples divorce some months or years after marriage, In order for you not to encounter such issue you have to study the character of your partner if it suits you or not before you get married to each other.
Courtship is very important for people going into marriage because it is there that you will know if your partner is hot tempered person or not, if he or she is a thief, if he or she is a gossiper,if he or she fights a lot when slight issues arises. These are the characters one need to know from his or her partner before finally agreeing to get married to each other.
•To know the ability of each other
It is in Courtship that you will know what your partner is capable of doing if he or she is good enough for the goals that you want to achieve in life together as couples not when you get married you will then discover that he or she is not capable of the tasks you want to begin that is why Courtship is of very important before you get married to your partner.
READ ALSO ----> ENEMIES OF MARRIAGE (THINGS THAT DESTROYS MARRIAGE, DON'T MISS OUT!!)
• To know dislikes and likes
To know what each other likes and dislikes can be found out during Courtship because if you do not engage in Courtship you will not be able to find out what your partner likes and dislikes because one day you might do what him or her do not like and it might lead to a quarrel or fight between the both of you.
•To know each other past life
This part is very important one has to know what kind of life his or her partner lived before during Courtship to avoid future problems when it is heard in public, this is the reason Courtship is encouraged so that both partners will be opened to each other to avoid any future fracas, for example if a guy was once a thief but later repented and got married without telling his wife his past life when the wife discovers this in the future it will lead to a very family problem because she was not told but in a situation when she was told is different because she has to think and accept. So during Courtship past lifestyles has to be exposed by both partners.
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• To know if you love each other
Many marriages has come to be today because of lust believe me or not but this is the actual truth, most partners do not love each other they only got married because the male partner was carried away by lust but when this lust goes away there will begin to have problems in their marriage that is why Courtship is encouraged so that you will be able to find out if you truly love each other or is it lust that holds both of you together and that is why sex is not encouraged during Courtship.
•To understand each other
Most partners today are still finding it so difficult to understand each other even when thorough explanation is done, one needs to know when his or her partner is not in a good mood and when him or her is in a good mood you can only learn this during Courtship but if you don't learn it during Courtship it will be very hard for you to do so when you get married because you cannot learn how to use left hand at old age.
READ ALSO------ WHEN MARRIAGE IS ON MIND, THINGS YOU NEED TO DO WHEN YOU REALLY NEED TO GET MARRIED
•To know about personal hygiene
What I mean by this is that you can only find out during Courtship if your partner is a hygienic person or not, many people today have gotten married to partners with either body or mouth odour some is dirtiness you can only know all this during Courtship but when you do not engage in Courtship you won't be able to find out all this.
•To know family background
It is good to know each other family background if it is the kind of family you would like to enter or not so that you won't regret it in the future after getting married to your partner.
•Choose a place of worship
It is during Courtship that both partners sit down together and agree on a particular church they want to worship with not after marriage because there might be disagreement between both partners which might lead to fight or divorce.
You can see that it is very important for Courtship to take place before marriage it must not be neglected or seen as a waste of time but rather as a shield for quality marriage and I will also encourage you to do away with sex during Courtship because it does not help at all, it might lead to unwanted pregnancy and your partner has two options and one to accept and other to reject and what if he disagrees what will be your reaction that is why I said sex should be absence during Courtship.
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Courtship is a process whereby people who are about to get married flock together in other to understand themselves better, In this article you will learn the Importance of Courtship and the reasons you need to do it before getting married, So many marriages have been divided today because most of them did not engage in Courtship before getting married. In this article you will learn the role Courtship play before marriage.
READ ALSO------REASONS TO GET MARRIED, QUALITY REASONS ONE NEED TO GET MARRIED
•To know each other character
Character plays a major role in marriage without you knowing the character of your partner before getting married it will be difficult for you to cope with him or her when you get married this is one of the reasons most couples divorce some months or years after marriage, In order for you not to encounter such issue you have to study the character of your partner if it suits you or not before you get married to each other.
Courtship is very important for people going into marriage because it is there that you will know if your partner is hot tempered person or not, if he or she is a thief, if he or she is a gossiper,if he or she fights a lot when slight issues arises. These are the characters one need to know from his or her partner before finally agreeing to get married to each other.
•To know the ability of each other
It is in Courtship that you will know what your partner is capable of doing if he or she is good enough for the goals that you want to achieve in life together as couples not when you get married you will then discover that he or she is not capable of the tasks you want to begin that is why Courtship is of very important before you get married to your partner.
READ ALSO ----> ENEMIES OF MARRIAGE (THINGS THAT DESTROYS MARRIAGE, DON'T MISS OUT!!)
• To know dislikes and likes
To know what each other likes and dislikes can be found out during Courtship because if you do not engage in Courtship you will not be able to find out what your partner likes and dislikes because one day you might do what him or her do not like and it might lead to a quarrel or fight between the both of you.
•To know each other past life
This part is very important one has to know what kind of life his or her partner lived before during Courtship to avoid future problems when it is heard in public, this is the reason Courtship is encouraged so that both partners will be opened to each other to avoid any future fracas, for example if a guy was once a thief but later repented and got married without telling his wife his past life when the wife discovers this in the future it will lead to a very family problem because she was not told but in a situation when she was told is different because she has to think and accept. So during Courtship past lifestyles has to be exposed by both partners.
READ ALSO------>SUBMISSIVE IN MARRIAGE A MUST ( HOW TO BE SUBMISSIVE TO YOUR PARTNER, DON'T MISS OUT!)
• To know if you love each other
Many marriages has come to be today because of lust believe me or not but this is the actual truth, most partners do not love each other they only got married because the male partner was carried away by lust but when this lust goes away there will begin to have problems in their marriage that is why Courtship is encouraged so that you will be able to find out if you truly love each other or is it lust that holds both of you together and that is why sex is not encouraged during Courtship.
•To understand each other
Most partners today are still finding it so difficult to understand each other even when thorough explanation is done, one needs to know when his or her partner is not in a good mood and when him or her is in a good mood you can only learn this during Courtship but if you don't learn it during Courtship it will be very hard for you to do so when you get married because you cannot learn how to use left hand at old age.
READ ALSO------ WHEN MARRIAGE IS ON MIND, THINGS YOU NEED TO DO WHEN YOU REALLY NEED TO GET MARRIED
•To know about personal hygiene
What I mean by this is that you can only find out during Courtship if your partner is a hygienic person or not, many people today have gotten married to partners with either body or mouth odour some is dirtiness you can only know all this during Courtship but when you do not engage in Courtship you won't be able to find out all this.
•To know family background
It is good to know each other family background if it is the kind of family you would like to enter or not so that you won't regret it in the future after getting married to your partner.
•Choose a place of worship
It is during Courtship that both partners sit down together and agree on a particular church they want to worship with not after marriage because there might be disagreement between both partners which might lead to fight or divorce.
You can see that it is very important for Courtship to take place before marriage it must not be neglected or seen as a waste of time but rather as a shield for quality marriage and I will also encourage you to do away with sex during Courtship because it does not help at all, it might lead to unwanted pregnancy and your partner has two options and one to accept and other to reject and what if he disagrees what will be your reaction that is why I said sex should be absence during Courtship.
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