How to Seduce My Husband: 10 Tips to Get Him in the Mood Tonight
Seduction isn’t just about the bedroom, even if that’s where most people think it happens. Seduction is about making your spouse desire to spend time with you and want to be around you whenever possible. If you find yourself in the mood but your husband has other plans, keep these 10 tips in mind to get your husband in the mood tonight!
1) Talk dirty
1. Use his name
2. Tell him what you want him to do
3. Ask for what you want
4. Touch him everywhere
5. Whisper dirty things in his ear
6. Sit on his lap
7. Draw attention to parts of your body that are turned on
8. Have fun!
2) Wear something sexy
1. Wear a sexy outfit that shows off your body
2. Keep your hair and makeup on point
3. Create romantic environment with candles, soft music, and dim lights
4. Send him a sexy text message or call him
5. Touch yourself while he watches
3) Send him a naughty text
Hey baby, what are you up to? I want you. I want your hands all over me and your body on top of mine. Let's get each other off tonight.
You'll be home soon right? I want to feel your tongue lapping at my skin as my fingers tangle themselves in your hair.
You can't resist my tight I'm yours for the taking so come home now.
4) Touch him
Touch him. That's right, I'm telling you to go ahead and touch him. Whether it's kissing his neck or rubbing your hands up and down his chest, touching is an easy way to get your guy in the mood.
Plus, he may not be a mind reader so if you want something from him then it might be best to just tell him. Just make sure he knows what you want before going for it or else he might get the wrong idea.
You should also refrain from touching some areas of his body like his feet because they're considered intimate zones. When in doubt, ask him if you can touch somewhere specific on his body or ask where he would like to be touched.
5) Play hard to get
If you're looking for a surefire way to get your man in the mood, play hard to get. Men are naturally competitive and want what they can't have. So, if you find yourself constantly giving him everything he wants, try letting him know that sometimes you're going to be busy with work or other priorities.
He'll see that as an opportunity to come and sweep you off your feet when he has free time! Use this to your advantage by putting out his fires and tending to his needs before telling him you won't be available. Give him something new to look forward to every day: Men love surprises, so make sure there is always something new on the horizon.
Hey there, sexy! You're looking handsome as ever today. You know, you've got me thinking of all sorts of naughty things I want to do with you. Let's get out of here and go have some fun. Hold on tight, because this night is going to be so amazing.
7) Make eye contact
Eye contact is one of the most important aspects of a successful seduction. When you make eye contact with your guy, it makes him feel like he's being seen for who he really is and it builds intimacy between the two of you.
If he doesn't feel comfortable making eye contact with you, then he probably feels uncomfortable around you, too. Try to break down his walls by asking him about himself or just showing an interest in what he has to say.
Acknowledge his hard work at work: Men want validation from their partners, so if they do something great at work, acknowledge it!
If they made dinner, comment on how good it smells. If they just got promoted at work, congratulate them! Even if all they did was take out the trash today - tell them that you're proud of their effort.
8) Give him a massage
Massage is one of the best ways to seduce your man. It's a great way for you to touch him and for him to feel loved and appreciated. Plus, it's just an excuse for you both to get naked! Here are some tips on how give a great massage:
1. Make sure that you're both in a good mood before starting. A massage isn't supposed to make anyone feel bad or guilty so if things are tense before hand, don't start!
Instead, put on some sexy music, take off all your clothes (unless you're going to be giving him a foot massage), and have fun with it. Once you've finished with the massage, go ahead and enjoy whatever other activities you had planned!
9) Cook his favorite meal
It's hard to feel sexy when you're not feeling well. But by making an effort, you'll show him that he's important and that you care about his mood. Here are some tips for getting your husband into the mood tonight:
1. Cook his favorite meal.
2. Try a new flavor of ice cream or pick up a pint of his favorite beer for dessert.
3. Tell him he's handsome.
4. Wear your sexiest underwear underneath a button-down shirt (the buttons should be left undone).
5. If you have kids, put them to bed early so you can focus on each other without distractions.
6. Clean the house from top to bottom before taking out the trash (or hire someone else to do it!).
7. Turn off all electronics so there is no way to multitask while snuggling on the couch together watching TV with your significant other .
10) Be confident
The first step to seducing your husband is knowing how you want him. You should know what turns him on and what makes him feel loved. This will help you make decisions about what you're going to wear, where you're going to go, and how fast or slow you'll want the night to progress.
In order for your husband's seduction planplan to work, he has to be in the mood. If he's feeling a little down, frustrated with work, bored with life in general or if something else seems to be getting his attention more than you are, then it might take a little extra effort to get his attention back.
That said, even if your man is not interested right away--or ever--that doesn't mean that you can't show up as confident as always and let him see just why he fell for you in the first place.
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You can seduce your husband by following these simple steps:
1) Leave a trail of clothing as you walk from room to room.
2) Give him a sensual massage.
3) Wear an outfit that makes you feel sexy, like a teddy or something with see-through lace.
4) Slip into bed beside him and whisper what you want him to do to you.
5) Take control and show him how you like to be touched.
6) Watch him fall in love with you all over again!
7) Be patient; it might take time for him to get comfortable giving up control.
8) Spend more time on foreplay than ever before so he’s not rushing anything.
9) Make sure he knows he’s wanted and loved by always telling him how much you care about his needs and desires, not just yours.
10) Remember, you don't need to try every single one of these tips to get him interested in sex--sometimes trying new things together can be very exciting.
11) If you're feeling shy or nervous, remember that it's okay to say no.
12) If he still won't listen to your sexual needs after all these steps, then it's possible that he is thinking about leaving you.
13) Talk to a counselor if this is the case because there may be unresolved issues between the two of you.
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