7 Ways to Treat Your Pregnant Wife Like a Queen

 7 Ways to Treat Your Pregnant Wife Like a Queen

        

Your wife has gone through an incredible amount of stress and hardship during her pregnancy, so it’s important to treat her like royalty now that she’s carrying your child. These seven ways to treat your pregnant wife like a queen will help you show your appreciation and adoration for the woman who will soon bring your new family member into the world!

If you are finding it hard on how to treat your pregnant wife, follow the guidelines below

1) Listen to her

Listening to your pregnant wife is one of the best ways you can treat her like royalty. She's going through a lot, and she probably feels very vulnerable.

 You may be tempted to boss her around and tell her what to do, but when she needs it most, it's time for you to shut up and listen. Sit down with her and let her vent about the things that are bothering her. Don't dismiss anything she says or wave off any fears as just being pregnant.

 Don't take everything out on her: If you're feeling frustrated because your spouse is doing more than their fair share of work around the house or if they aren't getting enough sleep, don't take those feelings out on them. 

Just because they are pregnant doesn't mean they're not entitled to their feelings. Give them space: If there's something they want to do that seems like too much physical exertion, don't make them feel guilty for wanting some downtime.

2) Help with the housework

While you'll need to cut back on some of your daily chores during her pregnancy, try and continue as many tasks as possible. This will help keep the household running smoothly while you're busy taking care of her every need.

 Tell her how happy you are about their impending arrival: She might not always feel confident about how pregnant she looks but it's important that she knows how much you love and adore her.

3) Take care of her

Remember that she's carrying another human being in her body, and the weight can be hard on her back and joints. Be gentle. Help her with household tasks when possible. Give her cuddles and kisses when she needs them or wants them. 

Let your wife know that you're there for her, and that you'll always be there for her as she goes through this very special time in life together. Always try to be understanding, compassionate and supportive throughout all stages of pregnancy.

 Share your concerns openly with your partner and don't hesitate to seek professional help if needed. Remember that while pregnant, it is best to not have sex during the last 3 months. Some women may experience heartburn due to increased production of stomach acid so some helpful remedies are an over-the-counter antacid (such as Tums) or a digestive enzyme like Pepcid AC which breaks down excess stomach acid.

4) Give her massages

You may be feeling like you're walking on eggshells, but it's important that you don't let this pregnancy take over your lives. One way you can show her love and support is by giving her massages.

 This will help make the physical aspects of pregnancy more tolerable for her and give her some relaxation time.

1) Make sure she has pillows propped up under the stomach and in between the knees so that she feels comfortable. 

2) Rub the oil onto her hands and wrists, then onto her back. 

3) Use firm pressure all across the back using long strokes.

 4) Be mindful of any sensitive areas such as the neck or hips when applying pressure. 

5) Listen to what she wants during the massage. Some people prefer light pressure while others need deep tissue work. 

6) Encourage her to relax and breathe deeply throughout the massage.

5) Take her out

If you are struggling with what to do for your pregnant wife, take her out. Take her out on a date night. Take her out on an evening when it is just the two of you and enjoy some alone time together. 

You will be surprised how well this works and how much your relationship can improve in such little time. The second way to treat your pregnant wife like a queen is by showering her with affection and attention. 

Even if she doesn't feel like going out or doing anything at all, take some time and sit down next to her and give her as much attention as possible. Sit down next to her for 30 minutes every day or spend 30 minutes giving massages every day; these things will make a huge difference.

6) Be patient

No matter what kind of relationship you have, the anticipation and excitement of bringing your first child into the world will be an incredible experience.

 You may not know what to expect or what this next chapter in your life will entail, but you can be sure that it'll be one you'll cherish forever. One thing that you must do is be patient with your wife as she goes through this process. 

She might need more time to complete chores around the house, cook dinner, get ready for bed, etc., so you should try not to pressure her. She's also going through hormonal changes which can cause mood swings and make her irritable at times; just be understanding when those moments happen and don't take them personally. 

Give her a break by cooking dinner occasionally or helping out around the house if she needs help managing everything that's happening right now.

7) Tell her she's beautiful

Pregnancy is not only an exciting time, it's also one of the most difficult and exhausting. You may be feeling exhausted or like you're carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders and that can make it hard for you to see how beautiful you are. 

Tell your wife that she's beautiful every day, even if she's not wearing makeup and her hair isn't done. She needs to know you still think she's beautiful, inside and out.  

Give her all the kisses: She deserves kisses all day long! Whenever possible, find ways to kiss her - when she gets in bed at night before bedtime; after breakfast in the morning; right when you walk through the door at night; before she leaves for work in the morning; etc.

conclusion

This week, as we celebrate Mother's Day, I'm taking time to reflect on all the little ways you can show your pregnant wife some love. I'm so grateful that my husband is my biggest cheerleader and supporter through this pregnancy. 

I've put together 7 ways for you to treat your pregnant wife like a queen this week . You'll be surprised how just a few small gestures will make her feel extra special this weekend.

 The first thing he should do? Bring her breakfast in bed! It doesn't have to be anything fancy - just toast with an egg and cheese or muffin with butter and honey will do nicely! After she has eaten, you can enjoy your coffee while reading her favorite book - whichever one she was reading when she told you she was pregnant. Just seeing it will make her remember what an amazing moment it was.